So many times in a reading a loved one comes through and
talks about something that occurred after they died with the person I’m reading
for saying, “They don’t know that person, or they weren’t alive then!”
Before the reading begins I always explain, that once you
die, you can rewind the video recorder back on everybody! On the other side
they know it all! They know every secret, every fear, every lie, they know
everything about you! But it’s ok, because they are their angelic selves. You
keep your personality, but your loved ones are angelic and don’t judge.
Your loved ones see the messes you get in to and the
problems you are having and they think to themselves, “Wow, Steve really
screwed up there! It will be a good life lesson for him! Somewhere down the
road, he’ll be able to look back on this experience, whether it’s pain,
suffering, and grief and help someone else going through the same opportunity
to grow their soul!”
Trust me, when it is your turn to cross over to the other
side, you will judge yourself and be hardest on yourself than anyone who
crossed before you or your God. Learn from your mistakes, pay it forward as far
into the future that you can. You can make your loved ones proud, but you will
be doing it for yourself. So you can look back and say you did the best you
could.