Don’t kid yourself. The ideas and
random thoughts that lead you to coincidences and chance encounters are not
your own. They are no coincidences. Do you really think you’re that smart?
Start counting the coincidences in your life and start writing them down. Write
all of the random thoughts you’ve had and where they led you. Coincidence? Your
ego says yes.
How many coincidences does it take
to from a pattern? Look outside the box. Pull back far enough
and look at the
big picture. Look at all of the places you have lived, all of the people you
have met,
all of the teachers and bosses you’ve had to this point, both good
and bad, how you learned everything
that you have learned and where it has
taken you. Chart it out; point by point,
map it to how you came
to be at this point in your life. Any dead ends?
What about all of the people in your life from birth to
now see any
similarities? Chance?
What if someone you trusted the
most was guiding you, maybe an Angel or Guide you met before you
came into this
world? Why are they guiding you down this path? What are the lessons you
learned and
are learning? Coincidence? Are you growing as a person or are you
just surviving. Why would
someone guide you down this path if you didn’t ask
them to? Because you did ask them to. Now just
figure out why. When you were a
kid you’d look for the hidden objects in the puzzle, like Where’s
Waldo. You
needed a soft focus and to pull back from the picture to see the hidden
details. Just like
you need to do in your life now. What’s the agenda? Is it to
make the most money, collect the most
toys? Does money buy happiness?
What’s your plan? Survive and
struggle to make it day to day, week to week? What if everything in
this life
was about personal relationships? What if you wanted to experience every type
of emotion
there was? How do you measure how far you have come? If you
experienced they most horrific pain
and suffering known to mankind, wouldn’t
you be able to measure its opposite, such as the most
blissful and fulfilling
unconditional love? How far can you measure and experience the depths of one
without feeling the other. Say you’ve experienced pain and suffering at a level
of four. So now you
could experience true love at a level of four. But you
wouldn’t know what it was like to experience
suffering or love at say on the
ninth level.
How do you know to love
unconditionally and to forgive, if you have not been hated for something
you
have no control over, such as how you look, your race, where you were born or
raised or for
something that you did? Chance or coincidence? What if someone
was guiding you so you could
experience tons of experiences and relationships, the
good, bad and the ugly? Why is it so hard to
believe that you asked someone for
help before you came down here?
I don’t believe in
predestination. Everyone has free will! Thousands of people on the other side
have
told me we all have free will. How many times did it take you to graduate
first grade? Great. What’s
next? Second grade! Oh my God, when do we get out of
school? What do you mean we never stop
learning even up to the seconds before
your death?
Think about the most powerful
events in your life. List them if it will help you see the big picture. I
will
bet that the biggest events in your life have to do with relationships with
other people. Everything
you have done or about to do has to do with a
relationship with another person. Whether you are
dating or got married, or got
the job of your dreams, or has to do with an upcoming decision, it has to
do
with a relationship with another person. The story of your life is made up of
personal relationships,
the good the bad and the ugly.
Every relationship is a test. To
graduate every grade, you have to experience and take the test. How
many times
do you have to retake the same test? Why do you keep attracting the same
people,
relationships and problems to your life? It’s a test. How many times do
you have to fail the test to
finally learn the answers? It’s a pattern not a
coincidence. Write them all down and look for the pattern. What prejudices do
you have to overcome to pass the test? What answers do you need to
change to
pass the test?
It’s hard enough to go through
school with dyslexia, but to get through chemistry class to graduate
high
school when you have a D average in the class was tough. I couldn’t make a
cheat sheet large
enough to get through the tests. Then after failing the third
high school chemistry test, I noticed a
pattern. I was ADHD and dyslexic but
recognized I could memorize 60% of the test, and then I was
screwed. But I saw
that of the 50% of the tests were multiple choice questions. Our Chemistry
teacher
was very anal and precise. 25% of the answers would always be the
choice of (a) on the test, 25%
(b), 25% (c) and 25% (d). The other 50% of the
test was made up of true and false questions. You
guessed it, 50% true, and 50%
false. After I made my 60% of correct answers I could make educated
guesses
about the other questions. Ended up making a C+ in the class and got to
graduate freaking
high school. You still have to guess at some stuff in life.
Look for the patterns and take a
step back from your life. Look for the big picture and you start to see
how
things add up. Why did you fail a test and later pass it? Why did you fail a
relationship and pass at another? Why are some things in your life hard and
others easy? What if someone was tipping you
off and telling you all of the cool
shortcuts to learn and get the most out of an experience? All you have to do is
ask and open your mind and eyes to your path. It’s not the correct path,
because there is no wrong
and right path, just your path. This is the path you
signed up for. No predestination, just a bunch of interesting opportunities and
experiences that seem random at times that help evolve you and your
true self,
your soul.
Elevate your soul. Transcend
outdated thoughts and experience life to its fullest. Get the most out of
this
life’s experience. And as you grow you will be able to help others grow and get
the most bang for
their buck in life experiences. I do believe the most
important experience you are meant to learn is love. Your heart, ego and soul
long to be loved by anyone and anything. From the love of a good meal,
a great
pet or your soul mate. Your conscious and unconscious mind longs for love any
kind of love.
You want to be noticed for who you are and loved. It’s in our
DNA. You can’t escape it. What do you
love the most? Who loves you the most?
If you could share with the world
unconditional love, how good would it feel? Don’t know if we’ll
ever know in
this lifetime. We put too many conditions on love, such as greed, prejudice,
jealousy,
all limitations of our mind and ego. So how do you let go of your
ego? Don’t know if you ever can in
this lifetime and in a physical world. You
don’t give up trying. We may be at point A today, but
somewhere in the far off
distance is point B, uncondional love. It’s a goal. It’s a planned trip that
might
take a lifetime to achieve, or for that matter many lifetimes, according
to what you believe. Take the
long route, the scenic route, the shortcuts, the
planned path or the unpredictable path, but keep an eye
on the prize. Keep one eye
open to the mountain peak and one eye to the ground to see how far you
have
come and how far you have to go.
Don't think that all of the
thoughts in your head are yours. Don’t think that you came up with all of
your
dreams. Just for a minute think that just possibly there could be a God, and
that there are other
beings on the other side that are helping you, inspiring
you and give you opportunities to learn and
grow. Just follow the coincidences
and they will lead you on your path. Master plan or just a
coincidence? Believe
what you want to believe, just believe in yourself.